Take your husband’s hand tonight. Look at a photo of his father. Say: "You come from good stock. I see the man your father is. And I am waiting for that man to show up in you. Help me find him."
He doesn't judge me for my parenting mishaps. He doesn't critique the way I load the dishwasher. He offers help, not criticism. i love my fatherinlaw more than my husband top
Living with these feelings creates a toxic emotional environment for a wife. Take your husband’s hand tonight
So stop asking, “How do I stop loving my father-in-law?” and start asking, “How do I either fix my marriage or find the courage to leave it?” Once you answer that question, your feelings for your father-in-law will fall into their proper place: as a warm, supportive, secondary relationship, not a lifeline for a drowning heart. I see the man your father is
You find yourself overcompensating at home, acting extra affectionate toward your husband to mask the guilt of your internal thoughts.